{"id":2656,"date":"2009-12-30T01:54:24","date_gmt":"2009-12-29T23:54:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/?p=2647"},"modified":"2009-12-30T01:54:24","modified_gmt":"2009-12-29T23:54:24","slug":"quid-pro-quo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/quid-pro-quo\/","title":{"rendered":"Quid Pro Quo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2648\" title=\"1-kolena-laila\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/1-kolena-laila1.jpg\" alt=\"Laila's Discussion with her granmother\" width=\"450\" height=\"189\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2649\" title=\"2-visit-granma\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/2-visit-granma.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"543\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2650\" title=\"3-successful-career\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/3-successful-career.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"556\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2651\" title=\"4-generation-gap\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/4-generation-gap.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"493\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2652\" title=\"5-generation-gap\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/5-generation-gap.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"548\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2653\" title=\"6-news-of-marriage\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/6-news-of-marriage.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"506\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2654\" title=\"7-pray-for-you-to-get-married\" src=\"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/amalgam\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/7-pray-for-you-to-get-married.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"576\" \/><\/p>\n<p>*Nefrah mennik = you get married (translation for non arabic-speaking readers)<\/p>\n<p>I thought social pressure for marriage starts for women in their early 30&#8217;s. But guess what! From the moment girls are born, they are brought up to &#8220;hope&#8221; and &#8220;dream&#8221; of the day they will get married (most women I know dream of this day). Marriage &amp; childbearing is still regarded as the most rewarding achievement in the life of a woman, while all the other &#8220;career-related&#8221; achievements are only secondary and should be avoided if the financial situation allows it. This clearly causes a lack of confidence and sense of failure to some of the women who are not married &#8211; which I find completely wrong! I&#8217;m glad <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kolenalaila.com\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kolena Laila<\/a> initiative is giving me the space to say what I think about all this!<\/p>\n<p>Other Lebanese &#8220;bloggeresses&#8221; for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kolenalaila.com\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kolena Laila<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 <a href=\"http:\/\/cafethawra.blogspot.com\/2009\/12\/fighting-right-enemy.html\" target=\"_blank\">Caf\u00e9 Thawra<\/a> &#8220;Fighting the right ennemy&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I<a href=\"http:\/\/identitychef.wordpress.com\/2009\/12\/28\/the-lebanese-leila-5-lessons-in-marketing-amp-personal-branding\/\" target=\"_blank\">dentity Chef<\/a> &#8220;The Lebanese Laila: 5 lessons in Marketing &amp; Self Branding&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.independence05.com\/blog\/2009\/12\/blog-post_29.html\" target=\"_blank\">Independence05<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/larazankoul\/4225700317\/in\/photostream\/\" target=\"_blank\">Lara&#8217;s photograph<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 &#8230; (let me know if I missed someone! \ud83d\ude42 )<\/p>\n<p>Now before I leave you back to your holidays (for the fortunate ones) and to your work (for the not-so-lucky ones like me!) here is a song from the soundtrack of a movie that I&#8217;ve been CRAVING to watch, but haven&#8217;t had 2 free hours in a row to do so. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0358273\/\" target=\"_blank\">Walk The Line<\/a> &lt;3 The song is &#8216;It Ain&#8217;t Me Babe&#8217; sang by Joaquim Phoenix &amp; Reese Witherspoon for the movie &#8230; Enjoy, and have a great day \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . *Nefrah mennik = you get married (translation for non arabic-speaking readers) I thought social pressure for marriage starts for women in their early 30&#8217;s. But [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"mc4wp_mailchimp_campaign":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[12,212,218,243,413,523,641,730,1082,1132,1166,1271,1273],"class_list":["post-2656","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-social-stories","tag-kolenalaila","tag-campaign","tag-career","tag-children","tag-empowering-women-in-the-middle-east","tag-granma","tag-kolena-laila","tag-marriage","tag-social-pressure","tag-successful-women","tag-teta","tag-women","tag-women-rights"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2656","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2656"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2656\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2656"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2656"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mayazankoul.com\/amalgam\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2656"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}